Like other aspects of our lives Islam also guides us that we can become good husband or a good wife after marriage? Holy Quran, Hadiths and Lives of Ummahat Ul Momineen are Guidance for us in this matter. If you are a Muslim Girl who is still not married or you are a married Muslim women this article is for you. Here i will be sharing the Signs of a Good Muslim wife. If these Signs also exists in you then it means that you are good wife and if not then you should try to bring these signs in yourself. So here are Signs of a Good Muslim Wife.
Respect: The Sign of a Good Muslim wife is that she respects her husband. Islam gives great importance to respect of husband. Accepting His order: Another Sign of a Good Muslim Wife is that she accepts Orders of her husband except those orders which are against the Guidelines of Islam. For example if your husband stops you from praying you will not accept this order because its against the Guidelines of Islam. Whoever you will have to accept his ever right order. Doing Dua: Another Sign of a Good Muslim Wife is that she do Dua for her husband. Never Lie: Relations never builds up basis of lies so never lie on any issue with your husband. Appreciate him: A Good Muslim Wife Appreciates her husband in front of him and others. Care: Another Sign of a Good Muslim wife is that she cares for her husband. Stay Clean: Try To Stay Clean, Wear Good cloths and use Fragrance in front of your husband. Forgiveness: Even if the mistake is of your husband you should try to forgive him.
Today i am sharing a useful Discussion on Interest Free Islamic Banking. A Muslim From India has asked about Interest Free Islamic Banking in India and if it is not available what are alternative options?
Ekram Dear brothers and sisters, Assalam Alaykum. I heard that if any involved in interest or usury activity is chalenging the Allah and the rasol for the war.......
but,the present situation in India is not favorable for Muslims to be interest free. Kindly tell me is there any Islamic bank / Islamic financial institute /Islamic mutual funds or Islamic life insurance companies in India?
How we can invest or deposit money in banks(Islamic) living in India.
SAULAT it is not only situation of India but Saudi Arabia is also in interest based banking and economy
it will better that transfer your money in gold and pay jakat and do not accumulate money as it is over for you bread and butter.
Ekram thanks brother SAULAT.
but, some times it becomes important save money in banks either for the security or for to buy some assets.
I think there will be some solution to this problem.
If all Muslims will be united ,then off course we can have such types of bank in India in near future.
Noor Ul Huda if you earn interest on your savings, then best way is to give that money of interest to some needy person. dnt use it , IF you live in a place where by no means you can find interest free banking-savings
Ekram thanks Noor Ul Huda.
but,I think it is also not allowed.
for more information regarding this watch this video(by dr zakir naik).
Muhammad DaniYal if we give interest to any poor .... would we get any reward in the life here after for giving the money of interest to needy people ?
Munaf NO! we should NOT give with the hope of getting any reward but rather our intention while giving the interest money to needy people should be of removing ourselves from this extreme haraam money. . it is better to give charity in percentage wise i.e. 2.5% irrespective whatever halal we get from our daily life, weekly or monthly income or pocket money. this will be more pure and honest as well as will please Allah
Ekram pleas suggest some solution with respect to India.
I am from West Bengal.
and what's Ur opinion about converting the money into gold as suggested by brother SAULAT.
Noor Ul Huda convert your money into gold, or convert it into dollars, these two ways are safe as well as legal profit earning sources. in both ways, your money will b in running state and you can earn on regular basis as well.
Ekram how to convert it to the gold. should be buy some jewellery of gold ?
what precautions we should we take why doing this. please tell me in details
Noor Ul Huda no, dnt buy jewelry, when in business, always buy gold bars. because those gold bars contain no impurity. second thing, when buy gold, watch the market carefully for some days, to get the knowledge of price hike or fall etc.
always buy pure gold and if necessary get help from a person who is already into this business. you may find the gold price fall after you buy gold, dnt get upset wait for some time, gold prices are so sensitive, they are on ever increasing rate now. so when you find the price highest---- in market after watching market carefully, then sell it.
same goes for dollar conversion, before getting into currency business, watch the market carefully, get the knowledge of currency hike and downfall etc. the global market rates. etc and then buy and sell. mostly currency business goes like this--- you buy currency and the same day you sell it to get premium. you can buy-sell as per your choice as well. find some broker or money exchanger to get further knowledge of the market.
SAULAT Dear Ekram I really much impress with you that you have spirit about Islamic economic module.
Dear in Islam there is no concept of bank because Islam strictly command to Muslim that do not accumulate money. Bank accumulate money but some people do not accept this truth
let have an example that Reserve Bank of India has trillion of rupee but still Indian people sleep without food at night.
Today we live a tyrannical economic system where common people can not recognize the evil face of this system.
We are compel to be a part of this system but at least we can do what we deserve.
We have two way that either we say bye bye this system or be a part of this system but by heart oppose this system.
Interest is major sin in Islam and our total economy system is based on interest.
If you have more money than your live requirement then convert it into gold and secure it at your bank because we have no option.
Collect your interest and distribute it needy people without hoping any reward from ALLAH.
You should be confirm that all stock market, mutual fund, insurance and many more are based on speculation and manipulation.
So you need search out personally that what is truth behind this system because people do not believe about this fact.
Ekram thanks Noor Ul Huda and SAULAT.
from where one should buy the gold bars?
I heard that some banks sells it,but I think if we buy it from a bank then we are supporting a interest based org indirectly?
Noor Ul Huda dnt buy from banks, visit gold market and buy gold from there. that's the right place to buy gold.
Noor Ul Huda brother itsa mutual fund, and what i know mutual fund is that it takes money from its customers, and invests in equity , i.e. in the shares and bonds of different companies.
i dnt know if in India or in any other country, one can find any company that runs its business based on sharia rules.
in every mutual fund, the customers get a premium, which is based on dividends on shares or coupons of bonds etc. this equity fund provide TAX-SHIELD, which i dnt know why it provides. tax charges by govt. on infrastructure and other services is not a sin.
in my eyes, its just the same mutual fund like every other mutual fund org. its just using sharia 's name.
Nayab In India, you can invest in gold easily with Gold ETFs. It's just like a mutual fund, with only difference being that instead of shares, the fund purchase and sells only gold. The value of the fund reflects gold prices.
There is however an element or risk, as you do not have physical possession of the gold and in case of a major economic catastrophe, the fund can default or run away with your money. The same is is there for mutual funds and shares as well. So physical gold bars and cons are safer, although buying, selling and storing it are hassles.
I heard (almost 1 month ago ) that a committee or organismic has been formed to monitor sharia compliant funds.
any info about that?
Noor Ul Huda brother ekram being a finance student i am assuring you that , no matter what any organization calming, they cant get rid of interest.
the reason is, whether banks or mutual funds etc, they invest money is other businesses and give loans to others. they cnt do business if they are Islamic in nature. no way in this world you can find a single financial institution based on Islamic finance. infact islamic finance is a subject of history now.
there is no concept of "FUTURE CONTRACTS" as per fiqah. we can not do business based on future contracts or terms/conditions. best is to have the tangible asset in hand. that's safe, and that's the best way to avoid any risk.
Nayab +1. My thoughts exactly.
The present day capitalistic system is itself based in riba. Those trying to sell so-called "Islamic mutual funds" or "sharia compliant funds" including companies that operate in such a system are hoodwinking the masses (at least in India).
At least if these "sharia" funds limit their investment to companies that does not give or take interest and sell products that totally comply with sharia, it would have been understandable. But what these people do as a matter of principle is invest in companies that have less than 33 % debt. Since when did riba <33% become halaal?
Here is the list of companies that these "Sharia" funds invest in
ACC has secure loans worth 518+ crores. This is only an example. Most of the companies in this list have loans. The only exceptions are MNCs such as ABB, 3M, BOC, Ingersoll Rand, GlaxoSmithkine Cons, etc.
Them there are companies such as Infosys that figure in this list. The loans apart, providing support to banking and insurance companies form th core of Infosys business. Simply put, if Infosys ceased to partner with riba based banks in Europe and USA, it would in all probability shut shop.
This is the status of our so called "Sharia" funds.
SYED Assalam Alaikum Brother, Good question though,
By Allah interest is definite haram and it is also not a matter of differences of opinion,
In various verses in Quran Allah Swt forbids usury and Rasooallah SAW have also forbid it in Various ahadith.
By just establishing Islamic financial institution and Islamic Banking it will not relive us from this evil of interest.
Interest based economic system is prevailing all over the world and whole world is in Clear Kufr including Muslim world. Only resumption of islamic Way of life would ease all muslims from the evil of Riba. After the destruction of Khilafah in 1924, Muslim Ummah find different ways to sneak out of obligation which is required from the ummah, Islam as an ideology which has its own Social System, Ruling system, Judgement System and Economic System. Islamic Banking system being a very small part of Islamic Economic System can't be established when their is centralized Riba Based system of any country.
And in Islam we don't follow what we like and leave what we dislike because Allah Swt has forbidden it in the Holy quran that: "Do you believe in a part of a scripture while rejecting the rest, What is the Recompense for those who do so except disgrace in this world and in the hereafter they will be consigned in Hellfire"
so in islam we don't take a part leave the other, we take the whole package. So Only establishing Banking system will not release us from the obligation of Resumption of islamic way of life.
We have been also Ordained by Allah swt to Cut the hands of the thief and stone the fornicator. This verses were revealed to Prophet as the obligation of Salah & Zakat were revealed and it is addressed to the ummah as the verses of Salah & Zakat is been Address, By Allah We can't sneak out from this obligation.
Only complete package of Islam(Social, Economic, ruling, Judgement System) have to be implemented in the world, Only then peace would return to the world.
Here is a Discussion on the "Sin in Islam" between Muslims and Non Muslims. a Hindu has raised a question and answer is given by Muslims.
Anand Just watched a YouTube video in one of the threads here.. where Dr. Zakir Naik mentions that sins like raping, dacoit, killing are lesser as compared to someone worshiping God using idol or lets say someone who is a peaceful polytheist. Height of some logical crap here!!
Do you guys agree to this?
Farhan what is the definition of Sin you are using here. as it depends upon what definition you use for it. . some ppl say Sin = an act, that harms human beings.
Munaf being peaceful and denying your own God do not prove that you are at a good man. Imagine, If a person deny or reject someone who help him in his whole life and give all the things which he need or require in life and even given him more than what he want and yet will you consider such rejecter as a peaceful person? . God gave us the intelligence to use and imagine even after given such a precious gift (intelligence) and yet man worships who had no life so leave aside intelligence. Don’t you think that worshiping idols is an insult to our intelligence which is used to worship who has no life and intelligence (idols) and an insult to God?
Farhan Let us first define what sin is: An immoral act considered to be a transgression against divine law An act regarded as a serious or regrettable fault, offense, or omission above are dictionary definitions of Sin. do u agree to these definitions?
Does your God be pleased if you worship some one else?
Does your God become happy if you lead a life which is against His will?
Yes or No.
Farhan When a person starts to Argue about some Ideology, he should have its BASIC understanding first. he does not have understanding,,and then he starts to compare it with his standards, and start giving Useless conclusions, that is called stupidity (which most ppl commit here casually) . Now as Nice Anand does not know yet, the reason that why shirk is biggest sin, then why give conclusions? (height of crap etc??) . even you are doing same mistake. you are not aware of this reason, but you are ready to give conclusions,,based on???? No Knowledge
its my request that please learn, and then speak (Always) there will be hundreds of Mis-understandings, and fights, which will be resolved by following this simple rule.
Another reason, based on Aamir brother's reason. . Suppose you are a father. you have 3 boys. You try your best to teach them the BEST way of life. but when they grow up, they start to demand Ultimate freedom. as rest of world around them is cruel, evil. everywhere there is crime, and wrong acts. . Even one of them says You are not my father, as i have not seen the DNA Report , or due to some other reasons, i do not accept you . 2 boys do the same. you try your best and say to them Please don't do that, i am your father, if you follow my guidance, you will be happy. otherwise world is cruel. you will face many problems.
What happens then? there of guys indulge in ULTIMATE Freedom. they totally deny you, and all of them indulge in worldly pleasures. in the end, they have no relation with their father, and they all indulge in crimes, and other wrong activities. one of them dies in high speed car racing. one dies being burned in fire by his enemies, and other also dies the same way. . it was just YOU, who,,could save them , by following your guidance, and tell them what is right and wrong.. . would u LOVE THEM,,and be Extremely happy? that all your sons abandoned you, died brutally, and live worst life? they died in their young age ,,and in worst way?
Amatullah If this happens where the shariah is being practised then as per my knowledge the rapist has to be put to death whether he rapes a Hindu or a christian or a Muslim.
However the same cannot be done to the guy worshiping idols. His account is with his Lord.
Now till here both are sinners.
If the person who raped asks Allah for forgiveness, it between him and his Lord. But the punishment has to be given.
Aamir In my opinion, both are sins and both deserve punishments. In question of which is bigger then, it has to shirk(Associating partners with Allah)
I ll explain why later, now your basis upon which you answered??
Farhan not all answers have SIMPLEST or PLAIN Answer. (i know u don't believe this) . i don't think you are here to KNOW answer. bcoz if u were, you would simply answer to questions we are asking u (which will give u answer completely)
this question is not like you have asked "What is name of God in Islam" Answer: Allah. .. you have asked MUSLIMS about the answer,,then you should have patience to LISTEN to the answer as well. . Expecting one line answer of such questions does not make any sense. . ad it is WE WHO KNOW Answer. how do u assumed that this question has one line PLAIN question? . Also i raised a point that you run towards conclusion, without knowing anything about specific concept of islam. do u agree?
Farhan and the question about Sin was not a counter question, but i was trying to understand that what definition do u have in mind of sin. bcoz if base is wrong, then whatever lies on it, is also wrong. . anyways, you are free to ignore any question.
Ahsan Having a muslim name is not the criteria to become a muslim in the eyes of Allah... A rapist cannot be a muslim...
Amatullah Brother if he has raped and not repented and is following his whims and fancies and does not follow Allah's commands then Allah will judge his punishment. How can I say that?
Perhaps he is a hypocrite for all we know and the punishment for hypocrites is even worse than the punishment for denying Allah.
However if he repents or if even a person who worships idols repents truly then Allah forgives
However, Allah has said that there is ONE SIN he will NOT forgive which is SHIRK.
Now brother if someone has committed a rape --- Allah may or may not forgive.
But rape is definitely a horrible crime. That does not make it less. The point is that ultimately Allah is the judge but we know for sure that shirk is unforgiven.
This does not mean that some xyz says I'm a muslim and blows up people. If he truly was a Muslim then the question is would he have done such a thing? So then the question that follows is "is he a hypocrite".
Now brother since we are humans and are not given such in depth knowledge let Allah decide.
We know one thing for sure that shirk is not going to be forgiven.
Farhan Simplest answer to your question can be this:
there is a Guru, who knows 1001 ways to live best life. and if anyone does not learns them, then that person would hurt other human beings UN-intentionally by many ways. so when a person rejects guru, he also rejects anything related to that guru (1001 way to live ideal life) . when a person rapes, he is only harming one human being. when a person Rejects Allah, that means he is rejecting whatever is associated with Allah or, anything Said by Allah. and the Best guidance in this world, is by Allah(islam). no other guidance (religion) is comparable to islam. So by rejecting One-ness of Allah, or associating partners with him, you are actually considering someone EQUAL to God (which , according to common sense is an Insult of the Allah Almighty) . how can anyone insult Allah almighty? who is Lord of the worlds? . and also, you are rejecting Quran/hadith (Every single teachings of Islam), which is the only way to bring peace in world. .
so conclusion is, if you reject Allah, or associate partners with Allah, you are potentially harming millions of human being. and with the way you live your life, you are taking part in spreading Evil everywhere (directly , as well as indirectly).